Love, Loss, and Self-Discovery

The scars of a traumatic incident become the seeds of change, reminding us that life's toughest moments can lead to the most unexpected and rewarding paths. 

Explore the complexities of modern dating with us, as Dani untangles the emotional labyrinth of transitioning from casual flings to serious partnerships, without the clarity of defined labels. 

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Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:00

away because, um, I don't know, just after everything that happened to me with the fire earlier this year and it just you know, obviously because a lot of stress for me and didn't want to make me I was just so focused on recovery, I didn't have time to like date or go on granted like that. So that actually helped me, that that that nightmare actually good came out of it, because it that helped me ended up becoming monogamous. So, like they say, everything happens for a reason. I'm a big believer in that and that's proof of that right there.

Speaker 2: 0:27

Sometimes bad things will come bring good to you later yeah, and earlier when I asked you about that question about you know, let's say, going on a restaurant I I just had this thought um, let's say, if I went on a date and the guys are okay to act like a gentleman, like a date, but let's say, compared to, let's say, a gay couple, a gay date, I don't think you guys do that much right. Like really show affections in a public setting in a restaurant. Anonymous. Yeah, don't you find that's kind of interesting, like really show affections in the public setting in a restaurant. So this is the.

Speaker 2: 1:06

Yeah, don't you find that's kind of interesting? Like the men I date, they're okay to show that, but when it comes to wanting to become official, they got coffee or they back down.

Speaker 1: 1:20

But I don't find that surprising at all, because the same thing happens in the gay world, not just transgender, um. That's why I mentioned the whole thing on grander guys, if it does come to the point where you become friends and say you can become fuck buddies, or whatever whatever you want to call it if you do get to that point and you do start going out to eat and stuff, for some reason they still label it.

Speaker 1: 1:49

They have a very tendency to very strongly label it. As we're just friends, okay, we fuck around, but still we're just friends.

Speaker 1: 1:57

It's because we're going out to eat and stuff doesn't mean we're dating. Okay, it's like that. The couple of guys that I did end up hooking up with for a while that we did end up dating afterward it never worked out. Because of that reason, we end up breaking up. Because I'm like what happened here? I thought we were just fucking ready though we were just friends. Now then I was like eating to going out together and watching movies together, eating, so yeah, and then they want to call it off and, oh wow, usually, usually that happens on their end, not mine, and it pissed me off. I'm like, and that's why I got into that poisonous mind frame of it messed me up. It did. That's what it meant about the whole toxic thing. It messed me up mentally because I was being, because I started to take it personal. I was like is it me? Is it because something wrong with me? And then, yeah, it took me a while To figure out that it wasn't me and I was them.

Speaker 2: 2:48

It's just the nature Of like this lifestyle.

Speaker 1: 2:51

Yeah, that, or maybe the way they secure themselves. But I know I did not, maybe Didn't suffer then, but definitely not all. So you know, yeah, especially now, that I'm way more mature than I was then when I started on winder. It's definitely not me now you know it has to be on them, because I'm way more patient now and open-minded and all that.

Speaker 2: 3:15

So thank you for sharing your dating experience, your filming experience, and hopefully, when we have the movie out on streaming, you'll come back. Maybe we'll have a few other few of other, um you know co-co-actors I hope we can get william, because I love him to death I love william. Who william?

Speaker 1: 3:41

william. You're all like, okay, there was two williams william, uh, chase william. You wrote about, I think, the other william to william chase, I love him. William William Girola. There was two Williams William, chase. William Girola, but I like the other William too, william Chase. I love him too. I just don't touch him as much as William Girola. But I hope we can get William Girola. I love him, you.